I’ll take the money. When I first met my wife she was married to someone else and had just had a baby. She was not at all on my radar back then and we hardly interacted with each other. About a decade later we reconnected and by then she was divorced and we really clicked.

It would be really hard to go back then and have to wait that long. I doubt I’d be able to convince her that she needs to leave her husband early for me based on my knowledge of the future, and I really wouldn’t have been ready to be a dad that young (she’s 6 years older than me), just out of college. If I could that might’ve saved a lot of issues.