You certainly are "pretty much"... :-)

So, what do you do, since you don't trust your family? Seems pretty much suspect there... or pretty much paranoid.

You are not safe against any of those you mention. Don't you know what VPN does, and does not?

You are pretty much NOT safe against large scale surveillance.

Thanks for backing me up, with the last thing you wrote. And then please go read up on what VPN actually does, and does not.