I'm complaining about people who are choosing not to vote.
This makes as much sense to me as complaining about people who "choose" to become gambling addicts or who "choose" to become homeless or who "choose" to engage in self harm, it just doesn't work like that. If people are "choosing" not to participate in your democracy either there's a problem with your democracy or they're in some kind of self destructive pattern that is almost certainly not going to be improved by criticism.
Moreover, how we define our problems leads directly to the sorts of solutions we end up with. If the problem is bad leaders, we can replace those leaders, and if it's a bad system we fix that system, but if the problem is that many of our voters are bad people that starts suggesting the best solution is we just stop trying to involve them in the process and just ditch the whole democracy thing altogether, and that's something I oppose almost as much as I oppose fascism/supremacist movements/genocide.
I am probably a bit too absolutist on this, but I really do think there's a slippery slope from "some eligible voters suck" to "democracy sucks" that I don't want to go down, so I really don't think we can go beyond "Republican voters suck", and I'm only willing to indulge in that kind of thing because they've been flogging the southern strategy (which is and always was fascism) for like 5+ decades and if we don't destroy that political party they will destroy us, but even then I think it's a real shame things have gotten to this point.