Of course, it's everyone's own decision what they do with their free time and it is not my place to judge anyone, but you could at least give a good idea a chance, right?
If you can get the house key in the first place. Setup an alt account to troubleshoot a thing, took me SEVEN fucking tries.
Can't speak for the rest, but Lemmy on a vanilla PC and Firefox is a pain in the ass. Intermittent glitches, permanent issues, outages, I can go on and on. Most people simply won't put up with it.