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Were you "popular" in school? (lemmy.world)
submitted 1 year ago by to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
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Not that it matters now, but I’m curious. I don’t know if I was popular. I had a lot of friends in middle school and I would say I did in high school too, but a lot less people knew me as the middle school I went to was smaller.

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[–] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I was bullied at every school I went to. Growing up an undiagnosed autistic girl was not easy. I managed to make a few friends when I got to a bigger school because we were all outcasts together, but that wasn't until I was 16 and almost done school. Even after I stood up to my bully when I was 15 I still got tortured at the small town school before that.

TBH I still don't know how to make friends today and my only friend is one of the ones I managed to dupe into liking me when I was 16 lol

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I relate to the friend problem too much. Last friend I made was ~15 years ago.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago

    I made a friend, she was like a sister to me for 12 years. Our families lived together for almost a decade, I was a surrogate for her, we were family. Earlier this year she went on a racist tirade and when I wasn't ok with it she stopped talking to me. Now I'm scared to try making friends again.

    The friend I kept from high school may be distant now, but at least she's consistent and out expectations of each other are equal: don't be an asshole, see you next year.

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