First of all, if you don't think it's weird to start off an introduction with "I'm queer and I'm a furry" then I'm not sure what to tell you. The vast majority of people in the world are going to be put off by you introducing yourself that way. That's personal shit you talk about once you get to know somebody not an ice breaker. You can make the argument that people should be more accepting of that kind of thing but the fact is this sort of introduction breaks just about every social norm there is and when you do that willingly you should expect people to get uncomfortable.

Second of all, quit forcing your kinks on everyone else. I don't care what weird kinky shit you do in your free time but I don't want to talk to you about it, especially not at work. It doesn't matter if your thing is women's feet, dudes buttholes, or guys dressed as a cartoon wolf, the answer is the same, ew stop. It isn't bigotry to not want to be forced to deal with your sexuality as a prerequisite for interacting with you. I probably don't want to be interacting with you at all, much less talking about what you like to do with your genitals, so stop oversharing and keep that shit to yourself.