Yeah I know I’m going to get downvoted for having a discussion about veganism on Lemmy.
As a carnivore on lemmy, I have a similar experience! It's a really good example you bring up, things people have strong visceral feelings about often get emotional reactions and are very difficult to discuss productively on lemmy with respect for people who have made different choices.
How can we bridge the gap so that we can speak about these sensitive subjects without people feeling like monsters, or being subjected to pejoratives ?