Not that I'm (dis)agreeing with anyone here but I'm curious if people actually do get charged most of the time even if it looks blatantly like self defense.
I suppose that'd be very hard to find a source on though and might require some more complex sleuthing. Regardless, I know here in the USA a lot of times people won't even get charged if it looks like self defense.
To be fair to you and the guy you replied to it's kind of a hard thing to actually ferret out.
I think one could definitely argue either way on the merits of charging someone vs not when it comes to a self defense situation.