i think it's interesting how right-wing propaganda has been railing about the so-called "war on christmas" for years. meanwhile halloween which is more about community and meeting the neighbors and sharing goodwill seems more and more sidelined, at least from where i'm sitting. imo, we need more halloween spirit, not less.

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  • love this! it's mainly how i feel about it. unfortunately corpos and churches have been ruining it for years. it's to the point where most people in my neighborhood stopped giving - i think mostly because of all the trunk-or-treats - and most kids have stopped coming. but my wife and i will be outside like we are every year wrapped up in a blanket hoping to see some kiddos dressed as monsters or super heroes or anime characters. and if even one comes it will have been worth it. happy halloween to you!

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  • [–] 7 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    I hate Christmas because it's a really stupid time of year for me now ... so many tragic events surround it that I can't enjoy it any more ... and I didn't really enjoy it to begin with anyway.

    I prefer Halloween and spend all my holiday money on this holiday than on any other holiday in the year. To me Halloween is the most open and giving holiday of the calendar.

    Think about it ... Christmas is mostly meant as an obligation to give expensive gifts to people you know and it becomes a competition among family and friends to see who can show more wealth and abundance than anyone else. Sure, it isn't supposed to be like that, but as soon as you start comparing, it immediately goes to that level.

    Whereas Halloween is also a giving event but the presents and gift giving is randomized without much organization. You prepare the gifts and you hand them out to children that come to your door. They make you smile and laugh with the silly things they wear and you give them candy ... that's it .. you don't know one another, you don't care, you laugh and smile, give each other some good feelings for a few seconds and you never see each other for another year or ever again at all. And you don't care, and they don't care, all everyone cares about is that you all did something nice for one another and then forgot about it all. Good feelings shared all around with no obligations or further contact. Perfection!

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 child)

    Great ideas, thank you. I’m actually trying to include literature or something. Read good, erotic scenes from that 40 shades of grey )never read it). But yeah, read slowly and intensely as I slowly stroke and reveal my cock little by little or something

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  • [–] 2 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

    Ooooooh seconded. I mean, take that with a grain of salt because I'm not a guy, but since there's not many answers yet... Hope that's ok!

    Also definitely invest in some toys and lingerie, right? That seems obvious but might be slightly underutilized in your demographic

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  • [–] 7 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

    I'm no professional but I think the first thing to figure out is what people find attractive about you and focus on that. Do you have a fat ass? Show it off. Do you have a big cock? Show it off. Ect.

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  • [–] 6 points 3 months ago

    Cute! I'm not sure what's so confusing about something like this though. Once you get to the stage of open relationships, it's like... you're all friends just caring for each other. What difference does it make if it's 3, 4 or 5 people? I feel like you tear down the boundary of what a relationship is 'supposed' to mean at that point and you do whatever makes everyone happy.

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