If I lean dominant, then it's a pleasure dom kind of thing. Being in control, and making sure everyone has a good time.

Yeah this exactly. Just had a long night with my fwb. Had him face down pressed into the bed, my weight on top of him. Whispering in his ear, fingers laced together, going surprisingly deep. It was so intense and I was completely in control. Would have just kept going but he started begging for me to breed him and that makes it hard to hold back.