[–] 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Tbh the advice I've heard is that if you are put on a PIP then it's time to search for a new job. Not even in terms of neurodivergence but just general advice for everyone. I think PIPs are generally businesses covering their asses so they can fire you without risk of a lawsuit.

Personally I'd give up on the script and convincing them it's a disability aid and instead spend that energy job hunting instead.

(To me, your boss asking you what you'd do if you lost access to it, sounds like they're already convinced that you're not the employee they want...)

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    This is very cute but I can't hold myself back from being pedantic here... Surely this is breakfast time, yes? Coffee, juice, croissants, and toast.

    Could be breakfast for dinner I suppose, I don't know the habits of puffins 😏

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  • [–] 1 point 6 months ago

    Did he move to a new company site in Seattle or is he working remote now?

    If they gave a cost of living increase for moving and allow him to do remote work, please tell me who you work for 😅

    I know if I were moving, my company would offer me the option to go remote, because I'm the top performer on my team. But there's no way they'd give me a cost of living increase to go remote, they don't even want me to wfh a couple days a week...

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  • [–] 31 points 6 months ago

    She refuses to let you get meds? This is extremely controlling behavior which sounds very concerning. You deserve bodily autonomy. If your wife were a man, this would immediately be called abuse.

    I agree with the other comments saying to get counseling and not take your meds in secret.

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  • [–] 5 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    Didn't ask

    Such a wild response lol

    You commented on a forum. People reply. That's... what happens here. The replies are for everyone on the thread, not just you. That's why it was a comment reply and not a DM.

    And like, look at where you are, this is an ADHD community. And someone provided relevant information in response to your comment. Of course someone is going to latch on to some small piece and infodump in response, it's the ADHD community

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