Run SSH over Tailscale. Extremely easy to set up, and it takes away the hassle of creating + distributing keys, port forwarding, etc. All authentication and access restriction is done through easy to understand ACLs.

I use it, for example to manage a friend's Snikket server in another country, with his server on his Tailnet shared with mine, and an SSH ACL to allow SSH access for my Tailscale user only.

Tailscale is your friend here.

You may want to take a look at @snikket_im@fosstodon.org

Looks more like an Instagram/Pixelfed alternative.

WhatsApp —> Snikket

This demonstrates why monolithic platforms, and Bluesky in particular, are not the answer to X. Yet people keep running from one silo to the next, like sheep following the herd. Once the herd has finally decided that it's time to be a 'rebel' and leave whatever 'big bad' platform they're on. Yeah, yeah, I know, Bluesky is 'decentralised' and 'federated'. Except that it isn't really, now is it? Let's see what new silo they can run to in, say 15 years or so, when they finally realise that Bluesky is indeed the new Twitter/X, just not in the way they thought it was…

Some things just don't work properly on Wayland. For example, #NoMachine remote #Plasma desktop sessions connect, show a white screen, then disconnect. Switching to an X11 session solves the problem.

This is a showstopper, so I'm sticking with X.Org.

Things like this needed to be ironed out before making it a permanent and exclusive replacement.