Maybe being gay is a weakness.

Lol at you trying to frame blatant homophobia as an "innocent" question. Do you also do birthdays you fucking clown.

If a woman wants a strong husband, is that regressive ?

"If someone doesn't want to date outside their race, is that regressive?"

If your reasoning for not being attracted to someone, is because what they are makes them seen as "inferior" by bad people, you are a bad person yourself.