Godot is perfectly capable for 3D and many games are using it. Sure it's not AAA so if you mean that then yes it's behind but for 75% or more of games it's just fine.

Unreal is removing their visual scripting and c++ for gameplay logic in favor of the "verse [programming language] + llm prompting" in Unreal 6

id has an awesome engine but Bethesda prevented them from letting 3rd parties use it, and now Microsoft has gutted the company and fired the people who build/maintain it