Lens reviews are my recent autistic interest.

For Sony (APS-C) e-mount, you literally cannot beat Viltrox at the moment. The 50mm Air is razor sharp corner-to-corner, even if you upgrade to a 40MP APS-C body later, and it's cheap:

https://viltrox.com/products/af-50mm-f2-fe

This is one of the best value lenses of all time, for sure. It's maybe not as sharp as some APS-C lenses, but it's still quite good on APS-C.

The EVO 75/90mm/85mm are fantastic if you want a tighter field of view: https://viltrox.com/collections/evo-series?filter.v.price.gte=&filter.v.price.lte=&filter.p.tag=E-mount&sort_by=created-descending

The 75mm would be best on your camera right now, but it's not a full-frame lens. The 85mm will work better on a full frame camera, but won't be quote as sharp/bright now: https://viltrox.com/products/af-85mm-f2-0-fe

Either way, wait a bit for a sale on these, and stack it with a discount code from some reviewer. Viltrox runs deep discounts often.

EDIT: Since you think you might buy a full frame camera some day, the Yongnuo 85mm is also excellent. It's sharp on either kind of camera, and a "sleeper" brand. Some of their lenses are mediocre, but the 85mm is their gem: https://th.hkyongnuo.com/products/85f18s-df-dsm

I adore my own Yongnuo 23mm, and the 85 is definitely better.

I’m most interested yet equally uninformed about Telephoto. I’m interested in shooting portraits, my cat, close ups of makeup and still life and maybe a little mushroom or a bird here and there but wildlife shouldn’t be the focus here because I’m not that outdoorsy. With my limited info I thought an effective focal length of 85-135mm might be good...

You have an APS-C camera, so listed focal length of 100mm+ would be a 150mm+. That's more "wildlife telephoto" range. Its suboptimal for "portrait" type photos because keeping the camera steady becomes really difficult with so much zoom, and the apertures tend to be slower, it's too tight for many subjects, and the plane of focus is just too thin for many shots.

I'd stay in the 50-90 range.

I was also thinking about getting an even wider angle for like cityscapes nature and maybe stars

And for video! Wide angles are great for all sorts of stuff. For APS-C, this means below ~19mm.

But this is tricky, because a "wide angle" on a full frame and APS-C camera are going to have wildly different fields of view and costs. For example, a 14mm on a APS-C camera is averagely wide, a good focal length, and dirt cheap. 14mm on full frame is extremely wide, so wide it's hard to shoot and looks distorted, and hideously expensive.

In other words, unlike telephoto lenses, it's hard to buy a good value wide-angle lens that works on APS-C AND full frame cameras, due to the way the optical engineering works out.

TBH I would recommend buying an APS-C wide lens, then just selling it and swapping to something else when you upgrade in the future. Depending on if you wish to do this or not, I have different recommendations.