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"Guys that like to fuck women but don't like women are terrifying, super super spooky" (sh.itjust.works)
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From Summer House’s Ciara Miller

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[–] [S] 16 points 3 months ago* (8 children)

I'm asking this in a not snarky way - is this a serious question?

Just in case it's serious - think of the type of man who loves porn, but hates anything remotely "girly". Will disparage art made by women, ignore women's takes, talk down to women, but are happy enough to fuck them. The kind of guy that yells at his wife to quiet down, to make herself smaller, to clean his house, but wants his dick sucked.

These are men that view women as objects to be used by men.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (7 children)

    Sort of. Not liking half of the world population is in its own a weird claim, the more you think of it. Unless 'liking' in this context only refers to attractiveness.

    But if not (might get a bit philosophical here) I do not think its actually possible to 'dislike all woman' based on any criteria.

    Unless someone dislikes everybody. That is fine I guess.

    Edit: sorry only read your first sentence and did my reply on that. What you are referring to is then disliking girlyness. That should be possible I think. Buy yeah then someone should like a non-girly woman I assume.

    Edit2: please don't hate on me for commenting as a male on your community. Read the rules a bit late. I won't infer with other stuff here, this image just popped on my feed.

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  • [–] [S] 11 points 3 months ago

    sorry only read your first sentence and did my reply on that. What you are referring to is then disliking girlyness. That should be possible I think. Buy yeah then someone should like a non-girly woman I assume.

    I wanted to address this comment. Not liking feminine things is part of hating women. Men who hate "girly" things don't automatically like women that are "non-girly" (though what the fuck does that even mean).

    It is so incredibly possible and common for some men to hate women but still want to fuck them.

    You should really set aside some of your biases and look into this. People like Andrew Tate and such did not appear out of a vacuum. There's a lot of people who hate women even though they want to fuck them.

    Please don't respond and thank you for checking the rules.

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  • [–] [S] 6 points 3 months ago* (5 children)

    Oh you sweet summer child.

    Did you read my comment?

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  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago (4 children)

    sweet summer child

    Thanks! :)

    Yeah I might be a bit naive sometimes. Or in my kinda feministic bubble and not really understand how hating woman works

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  • [–] [S] 5 points 3 months ago* (3 children)

    Feminism is for Everybody by bell hooks

    Start picking up books!

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  • [–] 1 point 3 months ago (2 children)

    Thanks for the reading tip! Made a note on my to read list.

    And regarding the 'girlyness', I agree that's undefinable, differs per person you would ask. I'd assume 'woman-haters' are not really aware of that. So they would be hating a made up view that is a overgeneralization based on personal experiences.

    I guess this still leaves the initial question open (and undoubtly, one that cannot be anwsered properly): how does disliking woman actually work?

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