I'm sure they will be able to get it into orbit at some point. The issue is they need to do ~10 successful launches of this thing to be able to get enough fuel into orbit to get it to the Moon. They haven't been able to pull off one successful launch to orbit yet.
So the problem isn't weight in regards to getting to orbit. But weight is a problem for getting this thing to the Moon. Making a 100% reusable spacecraft of this size seems to be difficult to make reliable.
Why is it so important to have a 100% reusable spacecraft when you've lost more than a dozen of those "reusable" spacecraft while trying to make it work? If they just sent up a dedicated moon lander, and Orion capsule, and a disposable booster, would that it have been any worse to have disposed of those things a dozen times and actually had a dozen moon landings? Or is it better to dispose of a dozen spacecraft (and counting) in an attempt to make a reusable spacecraft... some day... maybe.
I think we're deep in the sunk cost fallacy now. They have had so many failures (which they've characterized as successes) and spent so much money, and have NASA's planing based around this thing working, that they can't even consider that this may be a bad idea.