Which is more toxic?
The one that contains the most aggression.
Aggression isn't toxicity. The logical consequence of your stance is negative peace, and broken stairs.
Do most of those strangers know that you are receiving hundreds of requests? They’re strangers, so I’m betting on no.
Sure they do, because I tell them. The screenshot you posted is proof that I inform them.
The rest of this is needless language policing.