I distinctly remember a time when boomers and talking heads would automatically respond to concerns about issues with the cost of having kids with:
"Don't have kids if you can't afford them."
"If you couldn't afford kids then you should've kept your legs closed."
"Don't expect a handout, nobody forced you to have kids."
"Healthcare and child care are too expensive? Tough shit snowflake, that's the free market! Work harder!"
"Why are my taxes paying for a public school when I don't even have any kids that go there?"
So nope, no sympathies. And no, you can't have your child sex brides, either.