The fuck I am.

You're the one that equivocated military service (and implied killing through it) to simply

[choosing] wellbeing over others' lives

Choosing wellbeing over others' lives is the thing almost all of us do almost fucking constantly, and explicitly what I was talking about.

Military service and murdering people is not.

Edit: Draw your line in the sand wherever you want, murder is a perfectly valid line to have and one I agree with.

Just don't pretend that you don't choose wellbeing over others' lives too. If your issue is with military service and murder, stick with that.