That's actually my point though, that some sort of this is going to happen no matter what. If you start at the assumption that they're not going to stop until they can verify that the children can't access porn, then working backwards this is the best way to accomplish that because it's privacy focused.
The option of refusing is not on the table. It's not going to happen. There can be holdouts, but it's happening whether you like it or not. The only real thing we can do is fight for a version which does handle our privacy, which this one does.