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Have you met someone who interests you lately? (slrpnk.net)
submitted 9 months ago by to c/gaybros@lemmy.world
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This sub is pretty dead. Let's get some content here.

GayBros, have you met someone who interests you lately?

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[–] 1 point 9 months ago (3 children)

I was until I found out he was homophobic. I'm on my shift with him right now and man it's been so hard to talk to him. Before I found out he was homophobic, I would try to hangout with him as much as possible, and it probably looked super obvious to my coworkers because I couldn't shut up about him and was always looking for him.

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 9 months ago (2 children)

    Is there any chance that it is a shitty defense mechanism? Perhaps your country is not welcoming to lgtbq and he is signaling that?

    Or maybe he is just stupid. Be careful.

    But ya, I have been there. It sucks. I once was befriending someone who used a derogatory word and I just never had it in me to talk to him again.

    Remember that there will be others. Your perfect guy is still somewhere!

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  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago (1 child)

    Well yeah actually. I live in Oklahoma, which is pretty bad for LGBTQ so maybe that's it? It's so hard when every crush you've ever had has been on a straight dude, and they've all been homophobic too. I have met 1 gay dude in my entire life, but he is awful. He's not my type (which is fine, and isn't the reason I hate him). The reason I hate him is because he is a proud member of gays for trump. Like seriously?? That's like Jews for Hitler. Just my luck I suppose. What's even worse is that everytime i find out that my crush is straight, for some reason I want him even more. So last night I couldn't help myself but talk to him even more. And I couldn't help but stare at him even more too. But like, when this guy's got the most beautiful butt I've ever seen and really nice muscles (especially the chest hoooooooly shit), can you really blame me? Sorry I kinda used this to vent but i find it really sad that the only gay person I've met (at lease who I know is 100% gay) has so much internalized homophobia that he is willing to support the guy trying to kill us

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  • [–] [S] 1 point 9 months ago

    Hahah. Regarding his hotness, I know exactly what you mean. I also had a crush on a guy who was extremely hot. I didn't really like him as a person, but his body.. I cut contact with him and it was one of the best things I did.. At first, it sucked, but then I felt so much freeer.

    I know you cannot cut contact with yours like that, but you should figure something out. Meet new, better, people.

    Is this guy also MAGA, pro trump?

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