zagaberoo comments on Couples Who Skip This Daily Ritual Are More Likely to Fall Apart

[–] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 1 point 1 year ago (2 children)

It's a key symptom, I'd say. Relationship health is a deep and subtle thing, but if people aren't kissing then it's unlikely things are going well.

permalink

fedilink

source

parent

hideshow 2 child comments

[–] Maeve@midwest.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 child)

There are couples who have been together over 50 years who long stopped kissing and sexing. They're still together because that's not what their relationship is founded on/evolved to be. There are other reasons to be solid, some more healthy than others. I know people in sexless, kissless relationships that are healthy relationships, and those that are in hypersexual relationships that aren't. I just don't think there's a one size fits all.

permalink

fedilink

source

parent

hideshow 1 child comment

[–] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

Precisely why I say 'unlikely'. For every couple who's happy without physical intimacy, there are probably ten others that are falling apart. Saying that kisslessness signals disfunction is not the same thing as saying that hypersexuality signals health.

At the end of the day, everyone is different and it's not possible to infer anything about an individual couple by looking at averages and correlation. It's still interesting to look at trends and why they might be the way they are.

permalink

fedilink

source

parent