That's more a people problem than a lemmy problem. Anyone can make as many instances as they can afford and as many communities as they like.

I don't see the comparison between spez and the admins, Lemmy is a much different model from reddit.

For as much as I post, I only had two mod actions against me I felt were disproportionate, which is pretty good considering there is no way for anyone to make 100% good decisions all the time. Otherwise good people can flame out and bad people can still be fair mods.

I didn't like a couple of the big news coms, so I made my own. Build the things you want to see, because you are the fediverse as long as you're on it.