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Couples with big difference in sexual drive, how do you get along? (lemmynsfw.com)
submitted 11 months ago by to c/asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com
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So, I'm in a long-term relationship with my loving partner, and everything is good, except for the matters of sex. Suffice it to say, one partner (male) has a very overwhelming sexual drive, while the other (female) needs sex like once a month (and it has always been so throughout life). Partners are monogamous and do not explore options of having a third party.

Can any good advice be derived for such cases? Is there something that can be done to improve things on each side? I would love to hear your advice.

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[–] 1 point 11 months ago (1 child)

I appreciate you sharing! Unfortunately I did have this conversation before marriage and she was receptive even more open to another woman, however, she's since backed off in interest for unknown reasons. So I more or less feel like the "rug has been pulled from under me" like she said that go lock my down and never intended to actually pursue.

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago

    Sad. Maybe it's time to ask what changed? "I had the feeling I knew you on this topic but how do you feel about it today?" could be a relevant question, with mutual respect ofc. You don't want her to be pressured, neither feel put aside

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