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Girlfriend (files.catbox.moe)
submitted 11 months ago by to c/transmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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Description: A five panel comic. In the first picture the main character leaves and a co-worker says "See ya, dude". In the second panel, the protagonist is in a supermarket and the cashier says "Hey man." In the third panel, the protagonist is on a train and someone on the phone says "Hello, sir." In the fourth panel, the protagonist enters an apartment and says "I' home." and is welcomed by a woman who rushes towards her and says "THERE she is!" The two of them hug in the fifth panel, while the woman says "How's my beautiful girlfriend doing??"

Art by Homunculus101

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[–] 2 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Out of curiosity, what age range are these folks?

I'm having to deal with some people in the "coming of age" range and it is rough. One of them says their preferred pronouns shift constantly, but people should be able to tell based on how they are acting in the moment whether they feel feminine or masculine, to use 'they' is a cop out signifiying that someone doesn't care enough to tell.. The person decided mid conversation they felt more feminine and was disappointed I didn't swap without being told...

I try to be understanding, but folks need to recognize that even if their own internal life and identity is a rich and complicated thing, they need to simplify it for those of us on the outside and understand we can't possibly see inside their mind to understand all these factors that they think should be obvious.

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago* (1 child)

    Ages are 18-40.

    Yeah that is pretty close to my experience, but thankfully none have been that fluid about it. Just changing week by week instead of minute by minute

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  • [–] 2 points 11 months ago

    Yeah, before the newest one, the most complicated one was on the scale of weeks. And yes they were also kind of upset if you were one or two iterations behind, despite not having seen them since their last two changes....

    I remember a bit of this from when I was their age among my peers, and generally whatever it was settled in by 22 or so, a few years of indpendence tended to have people settle in, or at least if they were going to change it was going to be with more conviction than the teenage years.

    I think some presume there's some "wholeness" associated with a gender identity and keep juggling around being disappointed that presumed wholeness/rightness is elusive. At some point you accept some degree of wrongness/incompletness is just the human condition, and it's not too bad if you don't overthink it, just pick the path that minimizes that feeling and roll with it.

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