We have one daughter who is 3. I have an iud and he got a vasectomy so we are pretty firmly one and done. Financial reasons and attention reasons. We get to enjoy everything as a family together and also split duties so neither adult is feeling too overwhelmed. But we were always interested in being parents. It’s great to have this little person with her own personality and likes and dislikes that we get to watch grow and turn into whatever she wants to be. We each see a little of ourselves in her and we get to share things we love while also letting her discover her own interests. We get to share in her triumphs when she does something really hard (recently, reading books on her own or standing up when falling down on ice skates). There’s so much love there. She’s a cool little human.