I feel this. I refuse to use dating apps and everyone calls me weird. You go back 10 years ago the sentiment was the oposite, it changed so fast. I'm not a selfie guy, i don't take photos of myself much, and imo my best qualities don't translate great over texting. The couple months i did try to use them was exhausting. Spend an hour chatting with someone just to get ghosted. I've even caught girls I've been on dates with swiping while we met up. Already looking for something else before even giving me a fair shot.