"That's a bad argument because it makes me stan for Tesla" also isn't a good argument - for me.
Truth is different people find different arguments good, argumentation is enough of an artform that it's subjective.
So how about we all present our own arguments against Tesla, and then just be happy no one is arguing for them (except kinda you, just now).
The point is all Teslas have the same programming, and YES that programming can absolutely get you killed. Solution: don't die a victim of your car. Don't buy Tesla. Drive yourself instead.